Advice from Retirees that Wont Surprise You and Some that Will
Nine lessons learned on the reality of retirement planning
Article published: November 18, 2025
Make No Regrets Your Retirement Slogan
Take the next steps to help ensure you can have the retirement youre dreaming of.
Picture your retirement. Its fantastic, right? After a life of hard work, youre rewarded with complete freedom to do whatever you want.
But what is that, exactly? How are you paying for it? And are you still physically able to do whatever it is?
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WHY RETIREMENT PLANNING ADVICE FROM RETIREES MATTERS
Retirement planning isnt just about numbers (although there are plenty of those too). Missing important pieces of your planning can lead to regret. Knowing what many retirees say they would have done differently can help you make your retirement even better.
You wont find these retirement readiness tips in a spreadsheet, or a calculator ... or even a financial plan. You get them from going to the people who have been through it. Here are the top tips from retirees and their lessons learned in retirement.
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WOULDA, COULDA, SHOULDA: TOP LESSONS RETIREES WISH THEY KNEW SOONER
1. START SAVING AND INVESTING EARLY AND SAVE MORE THAN YOU THINK
OK, this ones not a surprise: In a Retiree Reflections survey by the Employee Benefits Research Institute, supported by 91做厙 Engines, the most resounding regret among retirees is not saving earlier or more a staggering 70% agreed. Many retirees underestimate how much they'll need, with a separate survey by Schroders finding that 47% of retirees reported higher-than-expected expenses and 33% were concerned about financial stress impacting their health.
Lesson: Begin saving and investing as early as possible. Even small contributions can compound significantly over time. $10k saved at age 30 could be worth about $110k at age 70 (with a 6% annual rate of return). But save that same $10k at age 50, and it could grow to just $33k.
2. MAKE SURE YOU UNDERSTAND MEDICARE AND SOCIAL SECURITY
In the Schroeders survey, nearly half of retirees said they believed Medicare would cover more than it does, and in a survey by EBRI and Greenwald,, only a quarter of retirees said they understood Social Security very well. That may be why a working paper from the National Bureau of Economic Research found that a fifth of respondents regretted claiming Social Security too early.
Lesson: Educate yourself on retirement benefits and know how your early decisions could impact your future options.
3. TAKE CARE OF YOUR HEALTH NOW
Hopefully youre reading this at the gym or on a walk, because health-related regrets are common among retirees. In fact, a survey by , a Medicare resource center, found that prioritizing your health泭 was the second-most-mentioned piece of retiree advice, after prioritizing their finances and saving enough money.
Its not just about staying active, getting rest and eating well, as important as they are. At some point, aging will start to take a toll, no matter what you do. And you need to make a plan for potential long-term care needs well before they become a reality. One potential avenue is long-term care insurance in the NBER working paper, a third of retirees said they regret not buying it.
Lesson: Invest in your health now and explore long-term care options before retirement.
4. PLAN FOR THE MENTAL, SOCIAL AND EMOTIONAL ASPECTS OF RETIREMENT
Retirement isnt just a financial transition; its an emotional one. And believe it or not, the emotions youll feel might not be pure joy and satisfaction.
In a survey by Second Wind Movement, a life coaching program for retirees, the biggest set of regrets surprisingly wasnt about being financially prepared, but mentally. Almost 60% felt only moderately or poorly prepared. Many miss the structure, purpose and social connections that work provided.
Lesson: Think beyond money when it comes to retirement; plan for how youll spend your time. Develop hobbies, volunteer or consider part-time work to maintain a sense of purpose.
5. DONT RELY ON PERFECT TIMING
In the NBER working paper, 34% of retirees said they regret not working longer. But the truth is that timing can be unpredictable. The EBRI/Greenwald survey found that 40% of respondents said they retired sooner than planned, very often due to issues out of their control.
Lesson: Prepare for flexibility and consider multiple retirement scenarios.
6. PAY ATTENTION TO RELATIONSHIPS AND LIFESTYLE TOO
Money isnt the only more that retirees wish they had. For many, the opportunities of time feel like theyve slipped away as well. In a variety of the surveys we mentioned, retirees said they regretted not spending more time with loved ones, deepening friendships and community ties and traveling more when younger. Career regrets also surface, with some wishing they had pursued passion projects or second-act careers.
Lesson: Balance work and savings with personal fulfillment. Make time for relationships and experiences.
7. DONT OVERLOOK TAXES
Taxes are one of the most underestimated aspects of retirement planning. In the EBRI Retiree Reflections survey, nearly half of retirees (48%) admitted they didnt understand how taxes would impact their retirement finances. And among those who faced a tax surprise in retirement, 60% ended up paying more than they had planned.
Lesson: Understanding how your retirement income will be taxed whether its from Social Security, pensions, IRAs or investments can help you avoid costly surprises. Consider working with your tax professional and a financial advisor to build a tax-efficient retirement strategy.
8. STAY IN CONTROL OF HOW RETIREMENT WILL PROGRESS
Some retirees choose to downsize or otherwise move to a different location as they age. That said, many would prefer to stay in their current home for as long as possible.
If thats your preference, think about how it will likely unfold. Will someone move in to care for you if needed? Can you move your bedroom downstairs? Can you modify your home with aids like a wheelchair ramp and handlebars? Make sure you have a workable plan.
showed that older adults were more satisfied with a downsizing move if they were the ones driving the decision. If the move was strongly influenced by factors outside of their control, they felt lower levels of psychological wellbeing.
Lesson: Think about how you prefer to simplify your life as you age, and take control of those decisions and their timing.
9. GET PROFESSIONAL HELP
Inthe Retiree Reflections survey, about half of retirees who didnt work with an advisor on a financial plan said they would have benefitted from speaking with a financial advice professional during their career. And among those who did start working with an advisor only as they approached or after retirement, an even greater portion said they should have done it earlier : the number of retirees who said they would have changed their financial habits to improve their current financial situation was lower among those who reported they had worked with an advisor on a financial plan versus those that did not work with an advisor on a financial plan.
Lesson: Dont go it alone. A financial advisor can give you advice for retirement, including helping you navigate retirement savings and guidance on Social Security, Medicare, tax planning and drawdown strategies.
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A PRERETIREMENT CHECKLIST TO CONSIDER, STRAIGHT FROM REAL RETIREES
- Save as much as you can, as early as you can
- Research Social Security and Medicare
- Take care of your health now and make plans for later
- Spend time considering what youll do with your retirement
- Build a flexible retirement timeline and know your plan B
- Make the most of your time and relationships
- Explore how taxes could affect you in retirement
- Think about how life will progress as you age
- Hire an advisor to help develop a comprehensive retirement plan
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HOW A FINANCIAL ADVISOR CAN HELP YOU AVOID REGRETS
Retirement regrets are powerful reminders that planning for the future is about more than just numbers. Its about aligning your financial, emotional and lifestyle goals to create a fulfilling post-work life.
The types of regrets a retiree might have can vary, but one thing a lot of them have in common is this they may have been avoided with the right help. That said, retirement planning mistakes dont have to be permanent! You just need to address them early enough.
Retirement will be new for you, but our financial advisors have seen it all. From helping set your retirement goals and motivating you to stay on track, to helping you understand Medicare and Social Security financial decisions, to responding to the unexpected surprises that threaten to derail your plans, to suggesting tax planning strategies that can save you money an advisor can be by your side throughout your journey. Talk to us today to get started.
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This material was prepared for educational purposes only. Although the information has been gathered from sources believed to be reliable, we do not guarantee its accuracy or completeness.
Neither 91做厙 Engines nor its affiliates offer tax or legal advice. Interested parties are strongly encouraged to seek advice from your qualified tax and/or legal professionals to help determine the best options for your particular circumstances.
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